SUPPORTER OF THE WEB SIDE

MR. AGUSH DEMIROVSKI FROM MACEDONIA

NEVER SAY AND JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE BEFORE LEARN ABOUT THEM WHO THEY ARE

"Gypsy Sexuality - about intimacy: Rroma and Outsider Perspectives"

"A ova knjiga je veoma retka. Prvo, može da je čita neko ko hoće da bude ekspert/kinja o Romima, a i čitatelji/ke koji ništa ne znaju o Romima, pravima manjina ili o politikama građanskih prava u Istočnoj Evropi. Interesantna je za studentkinje i studente rodnih studija, ali i za ljude koji nikada nisu ovu vrstu knjige uzeli u ruke. I bavi se određenim veoma važnim pitanjima ljudskih prava koja su ostale knjige prenebregle. Okuplja reči romskih aktivistkinja i aktivista i ne-Romskih pisaca i spisateljica, visokoobrazovanih Romkinja i žena sa ulice. To se teško nalazi.  Važan doprinos je ispitivanje odakle dolaze izvesni stereotipi i zašto istrajavaju. Knjiga daje zanimljive ideje o istoriji i sadašnjosti predstava o Ciganima kao divljim, slobodnim duhom, koji su siromašni zato što neće da se prilagode, o devojkama koje su previše strasne da bi sedele u školi, koje su maloletne majke jer su Cigani vatrena stvorenja. Ona govori o stereotipima koje autsajderi imaju o Romima, ali takođe – a to je veoma retko – o stereotipima koje Romi imaju jedni o drugima, Vlasi o Romungrima, jedna grupa o drugoj. Priča i kako Romkinje vide svoju interakciju sa muškarcima, i u domaćinstvu i na poslu i u političkom okruženju. I, kao što naslov sugeriše, gleda i kako neki Romi saobraćaju i sa Romima i sa ne-Romima u spavaćoj sobi. To nije urađeno iz zabave ili budalaštine, već kao prozor u druge teme.


"And this book is very rare. Firstly, we can read that someone who wants to be an expert / activists of Roma, and readers / ke who know nothing about the Roma, minority rights or civil rights policies in Eastern Europe. Interesting to female students and students of gender studies, but also for people who have never taken this kind of book in hand. I deals with some very important issues of human rights neglecting other books. brings together words of Romani activists and non-Roma writers and writer, highly Roma women and women on the street. It is hard to find.  
   
An important contribution is to examine where they come from and why certain stereotypes persist. The book provides interesting ideas about the history and present ideas about the gypsies as a wild, free spirit, who are poor because they will not conform, the girls that are too terrible to sit in school, that teenage mothers because they are Gypsies fiery creatures. It talks about the stereotypes that outsiders have of the Roma, but also - and this is very rare - about stereotypes that Roma have of each other, the Vlachs Romungrima, one group about another. The story and how Roma perceive their interactions with men in the household and the business and political environment. And, as the title suggests, looks and how some traffic and Roma with Roma and non-Roma in the bedroom. This is not done for fun or foolishness, but as a window into other topics.

This is not the first book that tells how state policies related to sexuality and reproductive health for Roma, but the first one to connect with family life, European cultural history and the wider picture. "